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DESIGN DARLING BLOGGER BRUNCH


Yesterday I hosted twenty of my very favorite bloggers for a fashion week escape on the rooftop of the Gramercy Park Hotel. This was really the first event I've ever planned and hosted and I'm so excited that it went off without a hitch! The blogger brunch was a wonderful excuse to don a pretty dress, gather friends from all over the country, and toast to the upcoming second anniversary of my boutique. Peach bellinis, pink peonies, and the most awesome, inspiring, and stylish bunch of young women... Really, what more could a girl want? Gratitude doesn't begin to cover it. Note to self: must do this again soon.

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*All photos by Amy Stone



HANDBAG CRUSH: MELI MELO






Do you remember this post on Olivia Palermo's super chic Meli Melo handbag? Well I just popped over to their website on a whim and couldn't get enough of their other leather goods. Olivia's bag is definitely still at the top of my wishlist but really, there were too many cute new goodies not to share. Are you kidding with with that lion key fob? Maybe it's the Leo in me but I'm in looove.


WEEKEND READING


1. A cute spot for your snail mail.

2. Famous actors auditioning for your favorite movies. Russell Brand is hilarious!


3. How to correctly apply concealer.


4. I love the leather trim on this navy top.


5. I'm downloading Nicole's workout playlist.


6. Obsessed with the Olympics? This hashtag will have you in stitches.


7. Sexy gingham workout wear. (Yes, you read that correctly.)


8. The most perfect monogrammed bedding.


9. This week's best-seller in the boutique.

10. Two blogs you'll love: Bows & Sequins and Look Linger Love.


WHAT I WISH I WERE WEARING FOR FASHION WEEK


Part of the fun of fashion week is the people watching. Some of the looks border on costumes but others make me wish I could ever in a million years pull something like that together! It's the ultimate inspiration for styling new outfits and always leaves me wishing I'd done a major shopping spree beforehand (you know, instead of a month-long shopping hiatus). Here are a few items I wish I were wearing after day one... Six more to go!

P.S. New goal for my 101 in 1001 list... Save up for this p-e-r-f-e-c-t bag. Every single color is to die for. What's your dream bag?!


WHAT I LEARNED FROM ONE MONTH OF NO SHOPPING

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It's been my experience that girls love to shop. My guy friends have asked when I'll be adding more men's gifts to the boutique but (while we've added a few great guy gifts here) I know that my target audience has been and likely always will be women. We women love clothes, decorating, shoes... Boys just don't shop the way girls do, myself included.

But I do live in a teeny tiny apartment and sometimes I get bogged down by all the stuff. (How is there no more hanging space in my closet?) I should preface this by saying I don't have a shopping addiction, have zero credit card debt, etc., but was simply up for a challenge (#5 on my 101 in 1001 list) to see if I could go thirty days without buying a single thing — no new arrivals on J.Crew or Shopbop, no sale finds, no spontaneous purchases while out with friends. The month after Christmas shopping overdrive seemed like as good a time as any.

Two things: 1) I made it and 2) I kind of loved it! Yes, I missed the feeling of waiting excitedly for the UPS guy to show up. Yes, I felt like I had "nothing to wear" for outfit posts on the blog. And yes, shopping with my girlfriends was a little less fun knowing I couldn't act on anything I fell in love with. But it forced me to rediscover a few old favorites (like a pair of suede jodhpur leggings from Rugby, RIP) and it made me think about which pieces I tend to wear over and over (blue oxford shirts, this navy blazerthis silk shirt). By the time the month was up, I was much more excited to add quality items to my repertoire of tried-and-true wardrobe favorites than any impulse purchases I'd truthfully only wear a handful of times.

So the verdict? Totally in favor. I felt like I proved something to myself, my checking account felt a little cushier at the end of the month, and I think I could totally do it again (maybe even once a season!). It's made me think more about each purchase since then, contemplate new items in terms of cost-per-wear (I'm dying to invest in some of these perfect everyday shirts), and hold off on one-off purchases for special occasions (this site is a huge help for that).

Could you go a month without shopping for clothes, decor, or makeup? Have you done it before? Tell me everything!


SO TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF...

Thank you all for your sweet comments on yesterday's post. You really know how to make a girl's day! Now it's time for one of my favorite features — getting to know more about y-o-u!

*photo by Tim Walker

Favorite feature about yourself: My red hair! 
Favorite color combination: Navy blue and hot pink... or hydrangea blue... or white #navyornothing
Favorite flower: Pink peonies, white tulips, and blue hydrangeas
You never leave the house without: My iPhone and this chapstick
You're secretly addicted to: Coffee and croissants ;) 

Now copy and paste the below questionnaire and share your responses in the comments! I'll be reading :)

Favorite characteristic about yourself:
Favorite color combination:
Favorite flower:
You never leave the house without:
You're secretly addicted to:



NEW YORK FASHION WEEK {FEELING LUCKY}


Oh boy. This week has been full of bad weather, endless errands, heavy traffic, you name it. Fashion Week starts on Thursday, conveniently following my month of no shopping (help!). I'm hosting a blogger brunch during Fashion Week that feels a little like planning a small wedding (the flowers! the food! the guest list!). I need to start looking at apartments since I have to move out in, oh, three weeks. I went out to walk Rory this morning and slipped on a patch of ice outside my door... It's just that kind of week.

But honestly I just feel super lucky right now. This is my fifth — fifth! — Fashion Week. Two years ago, attending a NYFW show was nothing more than a pipe dream on my first 101 in 1001 list. And now I'm stressed out about what to wear?! Forget it! I'm so giddy just to be a tiny part of it all. A new apartment means a slightly larger space in which my business can grow and our team can expand to include the people we need to really take things to the next level around here. And Rory... well, he's pretty much the light of my life, icy sidewalks and all. 

And last but not least, there's you guys. Design Darling — the blog, the boutique, all of it — would be nothing without you. Because unlike the street style stars who will flock to Lincoln Center this week, I know at my core I'm still that 19-year-old girl pressing "publish" from my sorority dorm room at Bucknell, hoping my friends wouldn't make fun of me and wondering if anyone but my mom would ever read what I wrote. It's pretty wild what this space has become since then — I'll never stop thanking my lucky stars for all of it and all of you. All "what to wear?" moments aside, I have nothing but excitement for what the future has in store and I can't wait to have you along for the ride. Thank you to infinity and beyond — and NYFW, bring it on!

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EMERSON FRY SPRING 2014

Obsessed with this little white topper. That single white button — so chic!

You can never have too many comfy knits. This luxe crewneck is a perfect layering piece this time of year.

The search for the perfect white tee ends here.

No lie: I would wear a light blue oxford shirt every day if I could.

I can't get enough of tulip skirts for spring — I already have this one hanging in my closet begging to be worn!

I know these aren't new to her collection but I'm still head over heels (hehe) for this pair of slingbacks... Would you not wear them every day?! It's safe to say I'd like one of everything to appear in my closet ASAP.






TOP TEN RAIN COATS

*No one does rainy day chic better than Blair from Atlantic Pacific!

We had a glimpse of spring in New York on Sunday and I made the most of every minute: dog park in the morning, a late brunch with Amy and Carly, outfit pictures, and a long walk with Rory. It was warm enough that I could get away with wearing my field jacket instead of my cocoon coat — definitely made me look forward to spring! One item that's clearly lacking in my spring wardrobe is a good rain coat so I scoured all my go-to sites for the best of the best:


P.S. Speaking of rain gear, I need these rain boots in both colorways. Navy/hydrangea blue and navy/hot pink? They've got Design Darling written all over them!


GET THE LOOK: ASHLEY WHITTAKER DINING ROOM


I love every last detail of this Ashley Whittaker-designed dining room, from the bistro chairs to the French doors to the striped rug. If you're as lovestruck as I am (how could you not be?!), I've rounded up a few pieces to help you get the look:



I'll never tire of blue, green, and white. What about you — could you live in this space?


VALENTINE'S DAY GIFTS FOR HER


Can you believe it's February already? It feels like we were just celebrating Christmas and New Year's but honestly I'm pretty happy we're one month closer to spring! Whether you're celebrating Valentine's Day with a significant other or doing a gift exchange with your girlfriends (or both!), we've rounded up a few of our favorite girly gifts in the boutique and would love for you to check them out! Above are a few more ideas at a bunch of different price points — stay tuned for a gift guide for guys! 


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ABSTRACT ART


Helen Frankenthaler




Mark Rothko


How's that for a bright start to your Monday? I took a bunch of art history classes in college but I'm embarrassed to say it's been months since I set foot in a museum. And I live in New York! Something I need to work on for sure. Who are your favorite artists? Do you enjoy abstract art as much as I do? And what are your favorite museums, especially in NYC? I'll be taking notes!

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WEEKEND READING


1. Acrylic staplers are back in stock! They are selling fast (woohooo!) so don't wait.

2. A super flattering dress for only $46.

3. Constellation prints, pretty pillows, and turquoise baubles... New arrivals in the boutique.


4. Fake it 'til you become it. This TED talk is a must-see!


5. How to decorate on a budget.

6. I might kill for this striped dress.

WEEKEND WARDROBE

Sophie Hulme clutch  //  J Brand jeans  //  Coach ring  //  Michael Antonio heels (on sale for $44!)

Can you believe it's the last day of January? I have no idea where this month went but I'm pretty excited to be that much closer to warmer weather. I'm dying for an excuse to splurge on this Cynthia Rowley bow top... You know when you're shopping online and something kind of stops you in your tracks? This top is a little outside my usual comfort zone (let's be serious, when's the last time you saw me wear a print that wasn't stripes? umm, never) but click over to see it on the model and I think you'll agree it's a showstopper. I do need to get shopping for fashion week... ;) Have a great weekend, friends!

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TARGET THRESHOLD COLLECTION



Remember the Target bar cart that I styled for Christmas? Target just released a ton of new arrivals in the same collection and let me tell you — they are awesome. The designs are super classic and the prices are out of this world (a natural extension of yesterday's post on decorating on a budget!). Like are you kidding me with that scalloped mirror?! I want to buy four and group them above a console table or line them down a hallway. And the tufted bench looks like it costs ten times what they're selling it for... Total no-brainer. Have any of you seen this collection in person? Which piece are you mostly likely to add to your place?



HOW TO DECORATE ON A BUDGET


As the lease on my first apartment winds to a close, I'm really looking forward to finding a new space and making it feel like home. My good friend Shelly is moving into her first place in Connecticut and I've been living vicariously helping her source a few furniture pieces... Decorating is truly one of my favorite hobbies. I thought before I move out of my current spot I'd share a little advice for decorating with what you have. Feel free to share your tips in the comments!

1. Make a list of everything you have and everything you need.
For instance, I already had a bed frame and mattress from my college dorm room that just needed to be transported into the city. My mom had also given me the antique quatrefoil mirror above my sofa (similar shape here and here) and the CB2 acrylic console table for my college graduation. So I knew I still needed bedding, a desk chair, dining/packing table, dining chairs, end tables, shelving, and a sofa. I didn't have space in my current apartment for a coffee table or nightstands so your list might look a little different depending on how much space you're working with!

2. Decide what look you're after.
I wanted most of my furniture to be white or neutral so I could bring in color with accessories, books, and throw pillows. I highly recommend creating an inspiration board and a shopping list on Pinterest (here are some bedrooms and interiors that inspire me). Rounding up my favorite rooms helped me make big decisions about which furniture to buy and which colors I tended to come back to for bedding, upholstery, and even wall color (which I decided not to change).

3. Figure out where you can afford to spend and where you'll have to save.
I let myself splurge a little on bedding from Serena & Lily (which I bought during one of their 20% off sales) and I haven't regretted it for a second. I also fell in love with this desk chair from Society Social which was a great purchase since I spend so much time working from home. Both of these purchases meant I had less money leftover to spend on my dresser and tables throughout the apartment — and that I had to wait a little longer before buying other pieces and making the apartment feel totally finished.

4. Hit up Craigslist, estate sales, and flea markets for furniture purchases.
I've purchased a ton of dressers and tables on Craigslist since college and it almost always results in a good deal and an even better story. Use CraigsEasy to search Craigslist in pictures (hello, timesaver!) for styles you like (I use search terms like campaign, chinoiserie, lacquer, and lucite). Don't worry if a wooden piece isn't in great condition — look for great lines and know that a coat of paint can work all kinds of miracles. If you're game for scouring estate sales and flea markets, make a day of it, go in with measurements of your space, and be patient. My mom, brother, and I found the mirrored end tables in the picture above for $20 apiece at Brimfield! Sold.

5. Peruse flash sale sites — but don't buy just because it's on sale.
Sites like Joss & Main and One Kings Lane are a treasure trove for furniture savings as long as you know what you're looking for. Stick to the list you made in the beginning (99% of what you see won't work for your space so don't get distracted!) and search every couple of days. I stalked Joss & Main for weeks before finding my sofa, a tufted linen number that I'll have for years and that only cost me around $400 (the cost of a comparable Ikea piece!).

6. Speaking of... there's always Ikea.
I hate the look of an apartment decorated entirely at Ikea but there's a reason it's the affordable go-to for twenty-somethings everywhere. I used the Docksta as a dining table and the Expedit as shelving for books and inventory. Mix them in with pieces that have more character to avoid looking like you furnished your apartment in one afternoon — decorating is a process and a fun one at that!

7. Make it feel like home.
Whether it's painting your walls (a project that will take you a weekend but won't break the bank) or hanging real window treatments (my parents and I made mine following this tutorial), design is in the details. Accessorize with art (we carry affordable prints in the boutique and I also love Etsy and Society 6) or blow up family or travel photos to cover wall space — a landscape photo for above your sofa will run you about $75 at FedEx. And bring in books, whether they're childhood favorites from your bedroom at home or coffee table books you find for sale online. They say don't judge a book by its cover — but you can tell a lot about people by their bookshelves!

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What decorating projects are you tackling at the moment? Any advice you'd add to this list?


KULE SIMON COAT WITH LEATHER CUFFS


Public service announcement: this Kule trench coat with leather cuffs is the coolest thing I've seen all week and it's marked down to $180 from $450. This will be my first purchase following my January shopping ban (along with this dress) so if you buy the last size 2 before this weekend, you're in big trouble. ;)

P.S. This waxed jacket is also super chic.